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一直以來都被一些責任壓得喘不過氣來，因為有責任在身，每天風雨無阻的都得去做，心靈也從來沒有放鬆的時候，有時甚至吃飯也不能正常保證，還好如今終於可以卸下重擔了，雖然在其間付出的時候很辛苦，但是看到付出後的成果心裡還是很安慰。

我一直是個喜歡追求完美的人，做任何事情喜歡盡善盡美，因此除了外界的壓力，其實自身施加的壓力也不少，熟悉我的人就知道，一直勸我多保重身體，多為自己考慮。目前，我也知道，自己身體狀態不好，所以只想多點時間安靜的思考一些東西，是否值得付出精力其實才是主要的，也許很多時候，我都很少為自己考慮，也很少為自己的身心考慮，我總是在不斷地拼命，不斷地證明，其實證明又能起什麼作用？最多能說明我還是做了不少工作，但是不做，似乎也不能失去些什麼？我做了，好像也沒得到什麼？其實得到最多的收穫就是：付出就不要奢望回報，做就要努力做好，盡力了也就無愧了。我想只要能做到這幾點，不管遇到什麼阻攔，心靈都沒有任何痛苦和負擔。

今天把所有的工作交代完畢，突然感覺一身輕鬆，大清早就想躺下，要不是一天都有課，真想一動不動地好好地睡它一天，那種身心突然放鬆後的疲倦頓時襲上心頭，彷彿所有的疲憊和倦怠都需要一次性地補償似的，這種感覺還真的很奇妙。

一段日子以來，浮躁、壓力、鬱悶、責任、恐懼就像一種細小的菌類植物在我的心裡潮濕的滋長，莫名的恐慌和寂寥緊緊的桎梏我混沌的思想，我甚至有種呼吸困難的抑鬱感，還有一種陷於沮喪中一直頹廢的失落感，彷彿一隻盲目摸象的瞎子，根本不知道如何好好打點自己的思緒，一直都是高度的忙碌和緊張。還有種種伴隨而來的糾結使得我無法確切真實的表述，總之一句話，世間諸事總是難以尋找到真切的出口，等到完全放下時候才真的完全平靜和釋然。

直到真的完全放下，直到這樣的時刻，我的心才突然豁朗開來，彷彿心中才重新滋生一種熟悉而美好的感覺，一些久違的幸福才重新抵達我的世界，突然明白這種感覺真的是很好。

很多時候，我都習慣了安靜地獨坐在辦公室敲字，正如現在一樣，邊敲字的過程中邊思索一些東西。目光穿越安靜悠長的走廊，透過玻璃窗看窗外的世界，和寬敞、溫暖、潔淨、翠綠的草坪對視，那些三葉草旺盛的生命力在陽光下也變得美好起來，火紅的葉子花在脆亮的銀杏和草坪陪襯下，更加紅得可愛、嬌豔。

其實，這樣的時刻，我知道我所歡愉享用的並不僅僅是文字本身，我希冀並渴求的應該是那種天然瀰漫的氛圍裡營造出的一種溫情，一切都如窗外的藍天一樣自然純粹，如窗外的草坪一樣自然清新，那是一種可以讓你心靈倏然安適舒暢的境界，避開俗世紛爭，一切都是那麼安靜地在那裡，面對這些美好的大自然，完全可以在內心將物質的一切誘惑浮華完全掩蓋，讓苦痛煩憂瞬間停止攀緣心靈的藤蔓，而這些心靈的轉變從來不需要刻意，一如迎著陽光一面的葉子總是格外的嫩綠、鮮活一樣，心靈的滋養也是同樣的道理。

一直喜歡用梭羅在《瓦爾登湖》序言裡的這句話拷問自己，“你能把心靜下來嗎？如果你沒有把心安靜下來，我說，你最好把心安靜下來，然後你再打開這本書。”

是啊！你能把心安靜下來嗎？如果不能你又如何走近梭羅湖畔清新的世界，那是一個崇尚簡樸生活的靈魂與自然萬物的親密相處過程，那是一個熱愛生命的作家用樸素的語言向我們展示的一個澄淨的世界，也許只有心足夠安詳和平靜才能讀懂裡面所蘊涵的哲理和思想。

當你內心完全平靜時候，你就可以深切體會梭羅將自己投置於城市之外的瓦爾登湖，親手砍伐白鬆建造木屋，自耕自食，完全過著田園式的放牧生活的生活情景，其實他每年只需要工作勞動六個星期，就足夠支付他一切生活開銷，而整個冬天和大部分夏天他就可以專心的讀點書或做點其他有意義的事。因此在日常的生活中梭羅是本著經濟學的觀點去實踐自我，他雖然蟄居躲避在森林裡，在瓦爾登湖岸邊，卻並非是消極的厭世，而是更實際，更積極的投入生活中去，並利用自己的獨特方式去變革現實，這既是出世亦是入世，由此可見梭羅的內心世界那層安靜與向善的力量是多麼的強大，由此也能感知他已經放下一些他想放下的東西，比如紅塵的繁華和誘惑，因此才能收穫心靈的平靜，也許放下的時候，他的心情也是輕鬆愉快的。

你看，紅塵滾滾，我們每個人都會被生活所累，當心靈被塵世的風潮浪湧侵蝕得一覽無餘的時候，當年復一日肩負的生活負擔越來越沉重，讓人感覺疲憊不堪的時候，我們在內心常常會為自己構建出一塊無形的遠離塵囂的土地，渴望像陶淵明一樣能避世悠然，拿僅存的夢想在那里辛勤開墾荒涼的土地，盼望每季能收穫預想的平靜，回歸百轉歲月之前單純的快樂。也許，這就是大多數人喜歡在文字裡做夢，讓心靈放飛，穿越生活始終的心懷，或許這也是另外的一種放下，同樣需要放下的是心靈的負擔，以文字表達的方式釋放自己，獲得身體和靈魂的回歸。

記得德國詩人荷爾德林說過：“當生命充滿艱辛，人，詩意的棲居在大地上。”這句話以一種別樣的內涵刻畫人生，於簡樸的生活中挖掘詩意的土壤，對詩意從自然中來給予了深層次的剖析，而讓靈魂回歸自然，讓心靈回歸大地，自然地處於放下的心態中傾聽大地各種自然的聲音與真誠的話語，不僅只是描摹出了梭羅精神和靈魂的本真情懷，同時也給世人指明了一條出路，那就是在喧囂中如何保持平靜？在俗世中如何尋求內心的安寧和諧和寧靜？

是啊！歲月如梭，光陰似劍。生活本是充滿艱辛，有的往事過去了也仍然繼續影響著未來的福祉，有些東西失去了就永遠的追不回來了。但是，我們依然得平靜地面對生活裡的一切風雨，只有坦然地從心底放下，不計較得失，才能讓心靈的河流一路搭載詩意的船舶，一路迎著溫熱的陽光向前。我們所賴以棲居的空間才會變得美好許多。

所以，很多時候，我們必須得遵從自己的內心，做到不強求，不苛求，不作過多的奢望和期待，守住心靈的本真，任憑它順其自然，才能達到心靈和周圍世界的和諧統一，才能在這片紛雜的土地上更加詩意的棲居，才能讓我們生存的這片大地多一些美麗和寧靜，也就意味著我們都能活得更加從容和淡定。

難得清閒的日子，午間的一場薄酒，無聊的心緒酣然入夢，醒來已近黃昏。 ­
　　
倒是醉也無聊，醒也無聊。 ­
　　
慵懶的駕車於城外，夕陽燦爛，暖風吹拂的柳絮，漫天飛舞，自由自在的纏繞著匆忙的人流。迷濛之中陡然而生一種隨風飄舞的柳絮競超脫於世人的感嘆，無拘無束的柳絮讓人著實的心生羨慕。 ­
　　
“偷隨柳絮到城外，行過水西聞子規”隨口吟出，悠然中翻開手機中的日曆，已是立夏，知道春天已去，錯過了花期的心緒倒是出奇的平靜。 ­
　　
也許是夙願未了，不知不覺之間，竟到了白羊峪地帶。
　　
於是閑庭信步的悠然走在寂靜的山林。 ­
　　
微暖的風，翠綠的樹，遍山的野草，掩映在天邊的漸漸淡去晚霞之中。腳下桃花落絮依稀的痕跡，泣然訴說著撿落不起的的憂傷。曾經的浩蕩春風中，生機盎然的發芽吐綠，盡情的綻放。在短暫春色中盡顯嫵媚和妖嬈。風雨過後，悄然的飄落，凋零滿山，透露著歲月的滄桑，萬物的輪迴。 ­
　　
沿著寂靜的山林小路，我躑躅在這暮春的光景裡。斂眉沉思，暮春的花事悄然撥動了心底之間思念的弦。 ­
　　
遠處幾聲杜鵑悲嗟，預報著暮春中芳菲已盡，應憐惜春光。這樣的情形，更該採擷幾支殘紅，於是忘情的找尋暮色中的一抹春痕。俯身低首拾起敗落在草叢中的幾片花瓣，乾枯的已不在柔軟，褪紅的慘白也不再妖艷。寂寥的心隱然作痛，再長的花期，無論怎樣的嫵媚，也只有一季的芬芳，終究都會凋謝。 ­
　　
隱忍的衝動再次掠過心頭，我一直認為自己是冷漠的，儘管也歡愉花團錦繡的盛放，更感嘆荼蘼的凋零，還常把“無可奈何花落去”化成文字，悄然訴說心底的憂傷，其實那隻是一種心靈的放逐。 ­
　　
“一花一世界”，你悄然讀懂的我長長的憂鬱，是對花愛憐，對這個花花世界的冷漠。 ­
　　
不期而遇的邂逅，恍若與你三生的驚世。回憶著你溫情純潔的笑臉，一如眼前靜靜的悄然開放的無名小花，那樣的淡定、從容。默默凝視著你嬌小的身影，儘管沒有牡丹的雍容富貴，玫瑰的嬌豔欲滴，水仙的傾心奪慕……在桃李爭妍的季節，沒有她們忘乎所以的綻放，沒有她們的大紅大紫的妖嬈。正是你的超俗脫塵，恍惚與你心靈對話。我當如從名與利的慾望長河中泅渡上岸的俗客，更像是個泡在燈紅酒綠里的浪子，驟然從時刻面對提放、奉承、慾望的旋渦裡逃離出來，突然面對一個清秀脫俗的女子，一雙乾淨純潔的眼神。 ­
　　
在芳菲已近的暮春時節，你悄然綻放著自己的美麗。在藍天、白雲、夕陽、青草之間淡淡的芬芳溶進微風，恰是你繞指的溫柔。 ­
　　
一直以來，想為你寫些文字。或是懶惰、或是浮躁的心情、或是憂鬱的思維，一直告誡自己應該以虔誠讀懂你簡單的純淨，不要攪醒超俗脫塵的一簾幽夢。 ­
　　
就在冥冥的注視中，有風吹過，眼前嬌小的花身，隨風顫動，此刻瓦解了所有的隱忍的那份固執的堅持。 ­
　　
跌跌撞撞的下山，已是暮色四合，一切都將歸於沉寂，已無人欣賞歸於夜色中的暮春。 ­
　　
心緒隨著翻飛的柳絮搖晃著，眼前的河水靜靜的映著深遠空白的天空，突然竟有一絲柳絮肆虐的飛入眼裡，彈抹之中已是絲縷成網，似千千扭結。忽然想起北宋詞人張先的《千秋歲》中的“永豐柳，無人盡日花飛雪。莫把么弦撥，怨極弦能說。天不老，情難絕，心似雙絲網，中有千千結”的句子。殘紅並非春歸去，試問千千情結，誰可催滅？ ­
　　
踉蹌的背影盡頭，彷彿一直是那朵無名的小花，如一雙清亮的眼睛，真切、純潔的注視自己。暮然回首，半山中隱約的大肚彌勒依然慈悲的笑著。我虔誠的祈禱：迷茫和浮躁時與你靠近、相遇，凝視你悄然綻放著自己的美麗。 ­
　　
淡然的坐在車裡，手裡的花瓣已經碎了，打開車窗，任從指尖滑落，隨風飄遠……
　　
徐徐行駛在回來的路上，依然沉浸在寂靜的暮春山林之中，大肚彌勒慈悲的笑容、悄然綻放的無名小花，豁然中捂得一絲禪意：那朵悄然綻放的小花，是心中永恆的春天。 ­
　　

面對心愛的人,你的心跳會加速,

然而面對喜歡的人,你只會興高彩烈。

面對心愛的人，冬天就像是春天，

然而面對喜歡的人，冬天只是個美麗的冬天。

假如你凝視的是心愛的人，你會臉紅，

但假如凝視的是你喜歡的人，你會微笑。

面對心愛的人，你不能說出心中的一切，

然而面對喜歡的人，你言無不盡。

面對心愛的人，你容易羞澀，

然而面對喜歡的人，你能展現真實的自我。

心愛的人時刻縈繞在你心頭，

你不能直視心愛的人的眼睛，

而你卻能欣然迎接喜歡的人的目光。

當心愛的人哭泣時，你會一同落淚，

而當喜歡的人哭泣，你會停下來安慰。

愛的感覺源自眼睛，

而喜歡的感覺源自耳朵。

所以如果你不再喜歡你喜歡的人，

你只需要堵住耳朵。

但是如果你試圖閉上眼睛，愛便會化作一滴淚水，永遠留在你的心中。

He stopped traffic on Fifth Avenue like the Beatles or Mrilyn Monroe. He could’ve been president of Israel or played violin at Carnegie Hall, but was too busy thinking. His musings on God, love and the meaning of life grace our greeting cards and day-timers.

Fifty years after his death, his shock of white hair and droopy mustache still symbolize genius.

Einstein remains the foremost scientist of the modern ear. Looking back 2400 years, only Newton, Galileo and Aristotle were his equals.

Around the world, universities and academies are celebrating the 100th anniversary of Einstein’s “miracle year” when he published five scientific papers in 1905 that fundamentally changed our grasp of space, time, light and matter. Only he could top himself about a decade later with his theory of general relativity.

Born in the are of horse-drawn carriages, his ideas launched a dazzling technological revolution that has generated more changes in a century that in the previous two millennia.

Computers, satellites, telecommunication, lasers, television and nuclear power all owe their invention to ways in which Einstein peeled back the veneer of the observable world to expose a stranger and more complicated reality underneath.

Yet there is more, and it is why Einstein transcends mere genius and has become our culture’s grandfatherly icon.

Yet there is more, and it is why Einstein transcends mere genius and has become our culture’s grandfatherly icon.

He escaped Hitler’s Germany and devoted the rest of his life to humanitarian and pacifist causes with an authority unmatched by any scientist today, or even most politicians and religious leaders. He used his celebrity to speak out against fascism, racial prejudice and the McCarthy hearings. His FBI file ran 1400 pages.

His letters reveal a tumultuous personal life—married twice and indifferent toward his children while obsessed with physics. Yet he charmed lovers and admirers with poetry and sailboat outings. Friends and neighbors fiercely protected his privacy.

An ancient Hebrew text says, “Love is as strong as death.” It seems that not everyone experiences this kind of strong love. The increase in poverty, crime and war tells us that the world is in desperate need of true love. But what is true love?

Love is something we all need but now do we know when we’ve experienced it? True love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but cannot be our only criteria for love. True love is when you care enough about another person that you would lay down your life for them. When this happens, then love truly is “as strong as death.”

How many of you have a mother or father, husband or wife, son or daughter or friend who would sacrifice his or her own lie for yours? Those of you who truly love your spouse and children would unselfishly lay your life on the line to save them from death. May people, in emergency rooms with their loved ones have prayed, “please God, take me instead of them.”

Find true love, and be a true lover as well. May you find the love which Leads to a truly fulfilling life.

Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling. They found out that the new baby was going be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael sang to his s sister in Mommy’s tummy. He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met her.
    The pregnancy progressed normally for Karen, an active member of the the

Creek United Methodist Church in

Morristown, Tennessee. In time, the labor pains came. Soon it was every five minutes, every three, every minute. But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself in hours of labor. Would a C-section be required?
    Finally, after a long struggle, Michael’s little sister was born. But she was in very serious condition. With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary’s Hospital,

Knoxville, Tennessee.
    The days inched by. The little girl got worse. The pediatrician had to tell the parents there is very little hope. Be prepared for the worst. Karen and her husband contacted a local cemetery about a burial plot. They had fixed up a special room in their house for t heir new baby they found themselves having to plan for a funeral. Michael, however, kept begging his parents to let him se his sister. I want to sing to her, he kept saying. Week two in intensive care looked as if a funeral would come before the week was over. Michael kept nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care. Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not. If he didn’t see his sister right then, he may never see her alive. She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU. He looked like a walking laundry basket. The head nurse recognized him as a child and bellowed, ” Get that kid out of here now. No children are allowed.” The mother rose up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glared steel-eyed right into the head nurse’s face, her lips a firm line. He is not leaving until he sings to his sister” she stated. Then Karen towed Michael to his sister’s bedside. He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live. After a moment, he began tossing. In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang: “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are gray.” Instantly the baby girl seemed to respond. The pulse rate began to calm down and become steady. “Keep on singing, Michael,” encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes. “You never know, dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my sunshine away. “As Michael sang to his sister, the baby’s ragged, strained breathing became as smooth as a kitten’s purr. “Keep on singing, sweetheart.”
    “The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms”. Michael’s little sister began to relax as rest, healing rest, seemed to sweep over her. “Keep singing, Michael.” Tears had now conquered the face of the bossy head nurse. Karen glowed. “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. Please don’t take my sunshine away…” 
    The next, day…the very next day…the little girl was well enough to go home. Woman’s Day Magazine called it The Miracle of a Brother’s Song. The medical staff just called it a miracle. Karen called it a miracle of God’s love.

    NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. LOVE IS SO INCREDIBLY POWERFUL. Please send this to all the people that have touched your life in some way. Life is good. 
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愛，有無數種分類。我以為最簡明的是—以血為界。

一種是血緣之愛，比如母親之愛親子，兒子之愛父親，擴展至子孫愛姥姥爺爺奶奶，親屬愛表兄表弟堂姐堂妹……甚至愛先人愛祖宗，都屬於這個範疇。

還有一種愛在血外，姑且稱為—非血之愛。比如愛朋友，愛長官，愛下屬，愛動物……最典型的是愛自己的配偶。

血緣之愛是無法選擇的，你可以不愛，卻不可能把某個成員從這條紅鏈中剜除。一脈血緣在你誕生之前許久，已經蒼老地盤繞在那裏，貫穿悠悠歲月。血緣之愛既至高上又無與倫比的沉重，也充滿天然的機緣和命定的隨意。它的基礎十分簡單，一種名叫“基因”的小密碼，按照數學的規律遞減著，稀釋著，組合著，疊加著，遂成為世界上最神聖最博大的愛的基石。

非血之愛則要奇詭神秘得多。你我原本河海隔絕，天各一方，在某一個瞬間，突然結成一體，從此生死相依，難道不是人世間最司空見慣又最不可思議的偶然嗎？無數神鬼莫測的巧合混雜其中，愛與恨泥沙俱下無以澄清。激情在其中孕育，偉大與卑微交織錯落。精神與人格，在血之外的湖泊中遨遊，攪起滔天雪浪，演出無數離合的故事……愛戀的光譜，比最複雜的銀河外星系軌道，還難以預計。

血緣之愛使我們感知人間最初的溫暖與光明，督我們成長，教我們成人。它是孤獨人生與大千世界的臍帶，攀援著它，我們一步步長大，最終掙脫它的羈絆，投入血外之愛。然後我們又回歸，開始血緣之愛新的輪回。

血緣之愛是水天一色的淳厚綿長，非血之愛更多一見鍾情的碰撞和千折百徊的激蕩。

血緣之愛有紅色纜繩指引，有驚無險，經歷頓挫，多能化險為夷，曲徑通幽。非血之愛全憑暗中摸索，更需心靈與膽魄燭照，在蒼莽荒原中，辟出人生攜手共進的小徑。非血的愛，使每個人思考與成長，比之循規蹈矩和血緣，更考驗一個人心智。

愛一個和你有血緣關係的人，是一種本能，一種幸福，一種責任，一種對天地自動化的纏綿呼應。

愛一個和你沒有血緣關係的人，是一種需要，一種渴望，一種智慧，一種對美與永恒的無倦追索。

我們一生，屢屢在血與非血的愛中沐浴，因此而成長。

從前有個國王要選宰相，他派人在全國各地張貼皇榜。

天下的有志之士聞訊後都紛紛來到了京都。

這一天，國王把他們帶以糧倉裏，大家面面相覷，不知他葫蘆裏賣的是什麽藥。

趁大家不注意，國王從懷裏掏出一顆夜明珠，把它扔在了堆積如山的穀子裏：“你們誰能把它找出來，就讓誰當宰相。”

大家七手八腳，在裏面緊張地找起來。

但由於人多手雜，他們幾乎把糧倉翻了個遍，仍一無所獲。

到了晚上，大家疲倦至極，都回家休息了。

大家直分奇怪，是誰這麽幸運，把夜明珠找到了呢？是糧倉的看門人。

昨天大家散去後，這們看門人一直在糧倉門口守著。

當夜幕降臨，夜明珠幽幽的光亮從穀堆裏透出來的時候，他直接向那光亮走過去，輕而易舉就把它扒了出來。

成功與失敗往往只是一步或半步之差，起決定作用的只是最後那一瞬間。弱者與強者之間、大人物之間與小人物之間最大的差異就在於意志的力量，唯有那些以夠堅持不懈的人，才能得到最大的獎賞。

Even though a hotel concierge handles mostly trifle matters, concierge Lin Feng nevertheless puts a great deal of effort and attention to satisfy every need of his guests.

Once a America guest of the hotel wistfully own a tiny iron tricycles which wider used by senior citizens in

They rode the tricycle back to the hotel , the guest was extremely excited, an experience he won’t easily forget. When they arrived at hotel, Lin Feng immediately called A & S ENTERPRISES LIMITED (a logistic company) to arrange shipment. After studying and comparing different routes, he decided to use the

Next Lin Feng dismantled and packed into a wooden box. However the brake pads of the tricycle were made of asbestos they are substances embargoed by

Several months later, the happy guest, having received the shipment, called and extended his heartfelt gratitude.

我侄女兒這幾年在聖誕節、生日和許多其他特別的日子裏收到大量禮物。事實上，一些朋友和親戚戲稱，她的禮物多得幾乎可以開一間禮品店！

盡管我侄女兒收到了很多玩具娃娃——會說的、會笑的，甚至還有會走路的，但是她的最愛卻只是一個古舊、破爛的娃娃，就像是別人玩過留下來的。但我侄女對它情有獨鍾。孩子們給了我們一種啟迪。儘管有時他們與成年人在物質要求上有著相同的態度，但是他們的取舍標准卻與我們截然不同。當他們愛上一樣東西時，他們的愛是不帶有任何條件的。

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